Why Do We Dedicate Children/Babies/Families?

I received this question recently in an email, and thought some others might benefit from the answer. Because we come from so many diverse faith backgrounds, its not always clear to everyone why we do what we do. So, here’s the question and the answer by email; names deleted to protect the innocent!

On May 6, 2010, at 12:09 PM:

Have a question. We signed the kids up for the dedication . We were present at a dedication before, we were not members at this time. What exactly is dedicating your children & what does it mean? We have an idea but wanted to make sure we know exactly what this meant before the day comes. If you could please answer that for us..thank you!!

ANSWER:
This is a good question!

We do baby/child/family dedications for several reasons;
1) we don’t observe or practice infant or child baptism. We find no biblical evidence for that. The historical arguments are not sufficient to cause us practice this.
2) there is historical and biblical precedence for entire families committing to follow the Lord.
3) the Bible makes it clear that the head of the family and the parents are required to teach their families to live in the ways of the Lord.
4) the Old Testament practice of circumcision was a physical mark in the body that the males were committed to following God. Specifically, it marked them out as God’s people. Circumcision doesn’t mean the same thing for us, but its a precedent for marking your children early as belonging to the Lord.

So, due to these issues and some key Bible verses, we want to bring our families b4 the church and the Lord to commit that we will raise our children in the fear of the Lord, that we will parent and love our spouses in a Godly way, and that the church is dedicated to supporting the family and its attempts to raise godly children.

Loving our families in Christ!
Pastor Joe

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One Response to “Why Do We Dedicate Children/Babies/Families?”

  1. Jeff C says:

    What Pastor Joe is referencing is found in many places in both the old and new testaments: Here are some examples:Acts 11:14 – Cornelius and his household are saved, Acts 16:15, Lydia, a wealthy businesswoman and all her household were saved, etc. The Greek word here is “oikos” which means “residents of a household” which would have included her family. Another prominent dedication in scripture comes from Hannah and Elkanah in 1 Samuel (1&2) when Hannah literally gave her baby son Samuel to the Priest Eli to be a servant in the temple! Of course the best example of all comes from our Lord, Jesus Christ and his cousin, John who were both dedicated and circumcised in the Jerusalem temple on the 8th day of their lives. This was a Jewish custom which signified the commitment of parents to raise their children in the “fear and admonition of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4). This custom also set apart Jewish boys because they were circumcised – something which nasty gentiles didn’t do (they also didn’t study their bacteriology!) So, since we in Christ are to be “a royal priesthood” and “chosen” (1 peter 2), we are to be set apart like jewish boys were in the old testament, but circumcised is to be in our “heart” (Rom 2:29), not only in our fleshy parts. Happy Dedication!